These positive parenting tools invite us, as parents, to no longer view children as disobedient or annoying but as children who need support and who need to learn skills, they do not yet have (such as self-control). We could also make the same observation for parents: a parent who gets angry, who loses patience, who screams and who goes crazy is an adult who needs support … and tools to learn to do otherwise. In this poster, I offer 12 positive parenting tools to avoid getting upset about children. The more our toolkit is provided, the easier it will be for us as parents to do otherwise. Doesn’t popular wisdom rightly say that if the only tool we have is a hammer, we will see any problem as a nail.